Im a woman and have been OLD for years now. Ive always asked the person if our date is still on the night before then a few hours before. Then I’ll text them that I’m no my way, and that I’m there. If they do not text me back at all I assume the dates off and I don’t go or leave. Recently I’ve been told this is needy and if I agree to a date with a man we should just both show up to the spot with no texting before hand?? I honestly don’t even do that with people I know. I usually will text “ I’m ready to go, lmk when you’re on your way”. I just don’t see why someone wouldn’t be able to or want to do this when we all have our phones on us.
